
Happy Friday!
On Wednesday I got to my gym looking forward to a swim and saw this.
What?? Apparently there is a problem with the chemicals. I was pretty disappointed since I had my swim workout from Janet Evans' Total Swimming
ready to go. Luckily, I had my running shoes in my bag so I changed the plan.
I decided to face yet another fitness fear and check out this bad boy.
I had been on an elliptical once many moons ago, but I generally steer clear of that part of the gym.
I spent 30 minutes on the thing and it wasn't too bad.
It's not a run or anything, but it'll do for cross-training.
Now, let's get to the Guilt Free portion of the post!
I love to read facebook posts and blog posts from fit friends.
Generally, I find them inspiring and motivating.
But lately, I've read too many posts that say things like,
"I hate this workout, but I'm sticking with it anyway."
"My knee hurt and it was raining,
but I put my toddler in the jogging stroller and did 5 miles anyway."
"I have to confess that I was lazy this week. I only made it to the gym 4 times."
"My daughter had me up late last night because she wasn't feeling well, but I got up at 4:30 AM and headed to the gym. If I hadn't, I would have felt like a slacker."
No, I didn't make these up. They actually appeared in my facebook feed this week.
I should tell you that I didn't workout at all yesterday. And I'm not sorry and I'm not a slacker.
I woke up at my normal time and sent the family off to school. Then I went out to my salon and got my hair cut. I had intended to go snowshoeing after the appointment.
But, when I got home I talked to my mom on the phone and ended up taking the puppy over to visit her and my cute little nieces. We had a fun visit and then Ruger & I went to Petsmart.
My family returned from school and we spent some time chatting about nothing in particular.
We ate dinner and watched TV.
I wouldn't have interrupted any of my day to go to the gym. I was having a great day!
I'll run today and I'll enjoy it.
I'll trust that I didn't lose any of my fitness because I took a day off.
I'll be smiling when I'm done and I won't feel guilty.
There are a few things in my fitness life that I insist on:
1. If I really hate the workout, I don't do it. I will look for another way.
2. I work out so that I feel healthy enough to live my life.
If I miss one workout because I'm living & loving my life, that's just fine with me.
3. I pay attention to my body.
If I feel pain (not post-workout soreness) I rest or exercise
in a way that is not as stressful to my body. Sore knees for me would mean it's a swim day.
I'm in this for the long haul.
I'll gladly miss today's workout so that I can be ready to enjoy tomorrow's workout.
Do you guilt yourself over every missed workout?
Would you rather treat yourself with kindness?




Great advice!!
ReplyDeleteI don't beat myself up over workouts. Just food. I'm working on it. Love the advice and it's all so true.
ReplyDeleteCarli Alice, I think you just inspired another post! Thanks for stopping by!
DeleteGreat post! I've re-discovered that if I enjoy exercise, do what works for me, and refuse to be governed by exercise-guilt - I can STICK TO IT instead of quitting! : )
ReplyDeleteGood for you Anna!
DeleteI don't give myself much guilt if I miss a workout, but being a distance runner if I go out for a run and it's supposed to be a long one and I'm not feeling it and cut it short, the rest of the day I will just feel totally guilty!
ReplyDeleteThanks for the advice!!!
Oh, I hear you! I worry if I cut a long run short by even 1/4 mile. But, I'm dealing with myself. :)
DeleteI love this! Why force yourself to do something you hate? Find an activity you love and stick with it :)
ReplyDeleteExactly! Life is too short & has too many options to be miserable.
DeleteYes, great post! I agree that women need to have less guilt about missing workouts, and learn to enjoy life more. And especially learn how to listen to our bodies and not injure ourselves or make it worse!
ReplyDeleteYes! Unfortunately I learned the last part through trial and error. We won't even talk about that half marathon in 2009 where I nearly cried. ;)
DeleteThis is a nice to hear! I think I push myself sometimes to the point of burn out. And by the way, I love the elliptical so much my trainer wants me to stop and move onto something else. I love the no to little impact it has on my knees.
ReplyDeleteI was surprised how challenging the elliptical was with so little impact! I will definitely be trying it again.
DeleteGreat post! I so agree that if you don't like it don't do it. There are a million and one alternatives! Besides, if you don't like it your more than likely not going to be able to commit to doing it. Right?
ReplyDeleteI'm getting better but yes I still feel guilty about missing workouts. Maybe it's not actually guilt. Hmmm...I need to think about this :)
Very true Jill... If you don't like it, you'll probably find reasons to skip it anyway and then end up with more guilt- ugh!
DeleteI definitely don't beat myself up when I miss a workout, because I know it's for a good reason. Now, when I do overeat or make bad eating choices, sometimes I feel a little bad or try to over exercise at the gym, which also isn't good. Stopping in from SITS!
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